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What made you decide to combat police brutality?

Im tired of the Abuse and All The Corruption going on in Our States!!!

Have you ever been harrassed or beaten by the police?

Yes Plenty of times!!

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Iam NOW! :)=

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Alittle About me~

I came today through variety of Unfortunate events in my life..

First of all..I had a very good childhood...So the unfortunate events that had happen in my life were very shocking to me....

I met this guy named Ron while i was married in 2000. Ron was on drugs&&homeless..

My Ex hubby and I decided to let him move into our apartment we had connected to our home, and help him get the help he needed...
In July 2000,My ex hubby was running to the bar 7 days aweek,it was bad enough we were there 3 xweek for him Dj(discjockey)... So i decided to stop going to the bars,well it got to the point my Exhubby was either working or at the bar&& we drifted apart..(sad)

That is were Mr.ron comes into the picture ,we started to hang out at the house and have fun,we got along soo good...He made me laugh&&happy actually!!

By Sept.2000 we were getting VERY close and i have helped him thru alot of S*** &&by keeping him away from the unknown drugs addicts&&dealers...
He always told me i was his hero (smiling)...He started to have me from Hello.. :)=

So, by September 27,2000 things were just me and ron,By december 2000 i told my Exhubby i wanted a divorce,he NEEVR disagreed cause he was cheating from the start of all of this...(Go figure HUH?)
So ron and Imoved to another home and started to live a great life for about yr..He was doing so good&&had a job...

By 2001 Of all people i got mixed up in drugs&& kept it a secret from him,till he found out...
He was devasted cause i was the clean and sober one and he was the F***ed up one that i was helping and here iam out getting my buzz on..

Well S*** his the fan, he relapsed!! So guess what? We started to use togather...

We were using everyday &&smoking 2-4 (8)balls in 4days,up all nite and partying just me and him alone... Yeah we had a crazy life togather you would say...
We always had our days planned for the day and the following.. ( get up shower&& get the dope,do it all back over the next day ,or just keep chasing the dragon)..

So by 2003 i was cashing everything in from saving accounts to,cashing checks ,selling my cars to dealers... I got hit up for a misdomendor for cashing ISF checks.. had to do 60 days in county, 1 yr probation... S*** that didnt scare me i was saying to myslef, the day i got released i had a 8 ball waiting for me... Everyone would say "Anita back at it again". That's when i realized i need to get out and go back with my exhubby, but untill he denied everything..
And then it happen the ron shot his self right in the chest in front of ME, i was devasted, this man love dme that much to prove to me by shooting his self... i thought i lost him for good, from then on It would be me&&him forlife!.

By the end of 2003 i moved atleast 3x and moved a drug dealer in.. So ofcourse out S*** was free... It thought it was cool that we had all the drugs we wanted....

By 2004 i was hooked on meth,(wow what a drug that is).. I was so messed up by then i never went around my family or any family functions, by then my family relized i was on something... They tried to help me, but i didnt want help, i did'nt have a problem...

By end of 2004, i was almost homeless, besides having a car and My man....It got so bad i needed the meth instead of the crack...
I would'nt leave my house for nothing, i make them drop it off cause i was hallucinating so bad i would think people were at the door wanting to come in , i would be talking to these people that were'nt even there... " I thought crack messed me up, S*** meth destroyed ME"! ....I always thought i would have the drugs, untill this day....

On May 16,2005 at 3:38pm.. My life was over from then....
From being up for 8 days straight, I decided to go out and get me some more since noone would drop any off..

So we got in to the car(ron&&i) and went to get some... I was so messed up i honestly thought i was racing another car , S*** instead of another car ,It was cops!!! i guess they were tryng to pull us over for a warrant ron had on him..(from here i was pretty much told what was going on from family listen to scanners)..

I never gave up i kept going,they said i was going 80 pmh down the road,almost had 2 head on wreaks.ran cars && ambulance driver off the road..

I remember seeing cops in front of us trying to pop out the tires, well guess what i missed them...So i turned down on another road and hit a bump and we went airborn thru the air,drop backed down on the road busted my mouth&&jaw off the steeringwheel..I remember looking to the right side of me and seen a playground,then look back in front of me and we were headed for a cliff.. I just stopped in time before i reached the egde of the cliff(wow, if only i didnt)....

All suddenly ron jumped out and went for the cliff, all i see was him fall straight down..
They had our car sworn with cops&&guns, They dragged me out the car and held a gun to my head( i was thinking wtf is going on).By the time thry got me off the ground i seen them bringing ron up the hill with mud&&blood all over him, they even maced his ass...

We set there and watch them tear our car up inside and out...they didnt find anything ,ofcourse we didnt make it to the drug house...

I was sent to jail for 12 days in detox, was released on $20,000 Bond and signed my right for them to indite me, 3 months later i was indited on a felony 3 fleeing and eluding.
They got ron on a fleeing misdomedor 4 and some other charges from the warrant(petty theft for $498.97) He went to court and told them he threaten me to do all this so they would let me go and he would take the rap for everything, so they took his plead and then looked at him and said by the way, you never held a gun to her head so she will be going to court..LOL at that some S***.. so he did 6 month for all his charges( and ofcourse i was still out and waiting) and riding the time with him....
In June 2005 i decided to go and get help for my problems.So i went to classes for 1 yr and went to meetings as well(i knew right then and then that i wanted to change my life to a better one, AND I DID)

Finally August 2006 they sentenced me to 6 months to a womens prison,4yrs ISP,4yrs no DL,and close to $8,000 in fines ... and still have 5 yrs hanging over my head till 2010..

I learned alot while i was there...(Ron and I got clean from the incindent in 2005)

I was released in March 3 2007,from the time i was locked up ron relapsed again and got 3 charges... They caught him with 2 grams of crack which got him 2 accounts of D/P&&
A B/E(breaking and entering) which he never actually did...( go figure another charge they just needed to put on someone)..

He was facing 2-5 yrs, then they sentenced him to 1 yr on October 26,2007.. (he is so lucky cause this was his 2 felon)

So, that is were im at now, I been clean for almost 3 yrs, and i will NEVER say im ashamed at my past cause my past made ME a better person today!!

My goal from the unfortunate events in my life has made me WANT to help others&&support them and there loved one....

1..I'm happy with what god has given me,and want to share it with others..
2..The love of my life is back in the sytsem and i will FOREVER be his ride&&die chick forlife!
3..And i want to help others Just like Ron&&I....And SUPPORT you in any way i can!!

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At 3:29pm on July 7, 2008, The Watchmen (Admin) said…: Yes, I even embedded your chatroom into this site as well.

Check the Extras section.

One Luv,

At 3:12pm on July 7, 2008, The Watchmen (Admin) said…: Hey Anita:

This is the new and improved site. I will do everything from here, and leave a note on the main page of the old network for people to join us here.

Thanks for everything,

Brian!